I've shot Lots of recurves & did carbons for 2 years & went back to aluminums. Several sizes could be used. Example, I use 1913s for target, field & #2216s hunting out of the same weight bow. I do the 1913s for target, field because I need distances out to 80 yds & can't get that with the heavy shaft..
Anyway, if using a release he can use 1913s. 1916s OR back in my old days I used 1614s out of 40#. If he's using fingers a thicker wall like 1918s or a 2016, 2018..
Those will give you the "lighter" arrow he is looking for. Personally, IF ONLY TARGET SHOOTING, I would go with a 1916 Aluminum. Won't bend easy like a 13s..
I am assuming he hits the target most of the time.. Lots of Carbon shooters will chime in & I can't help you there.