A good pro shop is the best start with the emphasis on GOOD. Just because a store sells archery equipment it doesn't mean they're a pro shop. That said there is some trial and error with archery for everyone, thats why there's so many different types of equipment and what 1 person likes another might hate. Reason being is eveybody has different shooting styles (the way they grip the bow, where they anchor, how they release, etc.) But there's a few things to consider The type of bow (I'm assuming a compound) any big name manufacturer is good like Hoyt, PSE, Bowtech, Martin, Mathews. The two most important things to consider are the proper draw length, and proper draw weight. That's where a good shop comes into play so they can try to fit you with a bow. As far as the length you want to be standing up straight when at full draw, not leaning back, you don't want to have the arm holding the bow over extended, and you dont want the hand holdng the string back behind your head. (In fact if you do a search on "hows my form" you'll find alot of pics of people shooting a bow with a bunch of suggestions very useful). As far as the weight you want domething you can get back fairly easily, you shouldn't have to struggle or point the bow towards the sky to draw it and again no leaning back. Compounds are usually adjustable by 10 lbs. (30-40, 40-50, etc.) As you shoot more often you'll get stronger and be able to increase the poundage I would say look for something that's moderately easy to draw at the lightest poundage and you can increase the weight as needed. Also you can go into the womens forum and maybe get some women's perspectives in there and you might even be able to find someone looking to unload one of their bows for a good price.