Indoor target bow question

How do you guys like the stabilizers on your bow and how do you want them to perform? When you shoot a shot do you want the bow to set still or kick up or down? How do you balance a bow? Do you hang it and try to level it or just shoot it and add weight to one of the stabilizers? I'm learning to shoot a back tension release and if I pull thru a shot it seems the front of the bow kicks up and if I use a punch it will not kick up. I might be pulling to hard I don't know. It seems the harder I pull the better I can hold on the spot but I shoot a little high right. I hope I don't sound to stupid but I hope I can get some opinions. Thanks