The only better is what works better for you. Both are solid bows.
I have VXR 28 and v3x 29. The 1” ata makes a bigger difference than you’d think. I prefer the VXR. It’s 4fps faster at the same draw weight as well. I don’t feel like it holds any different and it’s much more maneuverable in a stand or blind. I don’t use a bridgelock sight which is the only real difference in that the v3x has the bridgelock cut out. I’d definitely sell the v3x first if I had to sell 1.
My draw length is short at 27, the 28 ata is about perfect. If you have a longer draw the v3x 29 or 33 might be the better option.
This is the VXR 28 next to the 29. Will sort of give you an idea of the difference between the VXR 31.5 and v3x 33.
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