Paper tune and you will know for sure if your arrows are weak or stiff. Poor form is less of a factor with paper tuning, in my experience. I get too many false readings when bare shaft tuning. Besides, I want my arrows tuned exactly as I will hunt with them. From my 50# recurve, I shoot Beman ICS Bowhunter 500s with 100 grain brass inserts and 175 grain tips. They are cut to 28.75", and I draw about 27.5" so my actual draw weight is probably 48.5# or so. They fly like darts and hit with authority. Total arrow weight is 512 grains for 10.56 grains per pound of draw and 22.61 percent FOC. I try to stay close to 10 grains per pound, but a bit more doesn't hurt. I'm using 175 grain Simmons Tigersharks by the way. The blood trails those things create are just plain scary! Oh, and I did build out the sideplate on my Orion by about 1/8". I keep my shots inside 25 yards, so the heavier arrows are no problem at all. I did shoot a coyote at 30 yards, but I wouldn't try that on a deer. A coyote wonders what that noise was as the arrow hits it, while a deer may have dropped 12" by the time the arrow gets there.
Good luck with tuning your bow/arrow setup.